NAK GEGIRL

Tak boleh tahan la after tengok my niece punya pic. Meluap2 rasa nak sorang jgk at least gegirl.

Begaya sakan budak ni for her mommy' online business in facebook. BabyAliShoppe. My sister jual baju for baby and tods. Bukan for gegirl but for boys jugak. Do look for her tau in fb for cutest baju esp girls'.
My niece ni nama dia Widad Safiyya, 3 yrs old. Nama secomel on how she looks kan. She is the only cucu perempuan in my family. Memang sweet habis. I dengan sengaja curi all her pics and name the theme base on what she wear. Syok jgk! Scroll down :)

Flower cottage girl



Cupcake chic

My shopping mall outfit



Kiss me and you'll have my charm



Iklan Echanteur (eja salah kan? layan kan je :))

Movie outing!

Raya :)

librarian chic. Where's my glasess?



Girls day out jom!



Gossip girl XoXo

pretty in pyjama

I am smart and I look awesome!

Who's having birthday party? Count me in!



Gonna meet some aunts today :) 



New girl on the block

So, feels like having a gilr pulak next? For those yang tak ada girl lagi tu?? Me tooo! Tapi nanti ye nanti nanti. One fine day. InsyaAllah.

g.i.r.l.f.r.i.e.n.d.s

girlfriends: the one/many person you can really share everything with and who will be there through the good, the bad and the excellent - not just significant other, but essential


I dont have have many2 friends but a small circle of friends who I can really rely on. Sure semua org pun ada kan? Us, perempuan kalau dapat jumpa long life grilfriends kadang tu anak pun lupa. suami petah lg. *wink* Yalah. some ada yang kenal before I met my husband. kwn2 masa berhingus.some masa pertengahan baru nak matang. so they were always there along the way..tell me how to forget/ignore 'em?


kawan baik pompuan is like monyet and banana. cuteness!

Who said after we all kawin there's no such thing like girls day out, pillow talk with your BFFs and window shopping with GFs and etc..I just had a good one on last long weekend. That I stayed one night dekat my bff 's place and kami tak tidor sembang sampai pagi! Memang release semua yg terbuku di hati.




with wawa and art, we whatsapp/bbm everyday :)



And then balik hometown sempat hang out dengan GFs from secondary and husbands not included. Memang habis bergedik santai dah lupa dah diri ini rupanya mak budak.



ila, nani and ina..we whatsapp everyday too



tiap2 working days, email inbox penuh dgn email diorang nih! kecoh ms outlook kadang sampai hang haha

 Thanks to the technology (whatsapp/email/bbm) that connect us every single minute. Kadang2 thru whatsapp/bbm ni  duk jauh2 tapi we watched TV together tau. and share daily pics too. 
CAUTION: daily pics may contain inappropriate content too! Tetttt! haha
The more we whatsapp/bbm the more excited nak jumpa sokmo tau..
Bila nak jumpa lagi ni! Ahhh CNY ni.


Tips nak hang out dgn BFFs when you are married with kid(s)
Me: Abang, nak keluar hang out jap dgn kwn2. Dah lama tak jumpa ni
Hubby: *silent*
Me: takpe b jaga anak, abg pi la lepak dgn kawan2 abg.
Husband : OK
Me :(oh...suka noh tak payah jaga anak)

Hmm takat sorang bolela bawak join skali kan. Kalau ramai2 nanti memang ada ja one of my bff jadi maid terjun. Yang single la :)

so BFFs, when is our next meeting??? Whatsapp jom

-Jazakallah-

WORDLESS FRIDAY!

Pecah tradisi. :) Nak buat macam mana hari Rabu tak sempat :P



Tgh berangan basuh pinggan :p




The planned layout




Kitchen stove

Haishhh..lambat lagi......ok. enough berangan. back to reality #boringlife



MELENTUR BULUH

"Don't worry that your kids don't listen to you, worry that they are watching you"

Ok, kata kata hikmat di atas merisaukan saya! Lagi merisaukan bila teringat kelakuan kurang elok saya seperti memekik bila terdesak, mandi lambat, lupa baca doa makan(bismillah pelan2- well, kids can't hear you!) and the list goes on. Ngee

 There... Umair is watching me. Pernah tak menyesal after you terbuat sesuatu yang tak patut in front of your kids? I'm gonna confess yang I memang pernah. Like baru two days ago, He was just right in front of me, tiba tiba kaki I dengan liarnya terkuis satu barang that blocked my way. Umair ni dah memang suka kick bola. lepas dia ternampak I buat macam tu apa lagi. Then he thought that it was fun kicking things toooo! T__T Habis. I perasan a while after peristiwa tu dia dok enjoy menendanggggg. See the impact? and now I have to punish him if he tries to. Punishing scares me too. I'm afraid if I over punishing him I mean at his age kan. Takut emotionally dia tak secure pulak.

See, parenting is fun but not as easy as we thought.

But I tadokk la buruk akhlak sangat. he learnt saying thank you suma from mama dia apa. Cuma pronounce ja tak betul lagi. Dok eng-ku eng-ku. Pastu bnyak gak bbysitter dia ajar yang elok2. Bila dengar org azan, jari mesti kat mulut dok 'syhhhhh'. tgk orang solat pon kalut dok shooh sana sini suruh orang diam. and then dia cermat kau! Ambil barang mesti simpan tempat asal. Yang ni ikot saya! saya! (I tipu, abah dia yang cermat giles)

Pakai single lobang2 nak jadi imam? Seluaq pendek plk tu

kemas menan :p

It's a loooong journey..insyaAllah by realizing this will make me a better person. ingat dok lagu Better Man Robbie Williams? sapa tak ingat, top kut lagu tu dulu. Tukar ja Better Man to Better Mom, nak meng-encourage kita hendaknya. sometime a song can inspire us jugak noh.

Tapi lagu lagu jugak, amalan surah - surah tu nak kena amal slalu nih. esp bila dia nak tido kan baca and hembus kat ubun-ubun. I know Surah Taha is good to practice. So they all akan lembut hati. insya-Allah.-

Ni, I nak share. This girl tak kenal pun tapi hati baik. Terjumpa masa bawak umair main dekat playground.



 Tgk tu tlg buang pasir kat seluar umair :)





Prihatin :)

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I dok cakap dalam hati "Pandai mak bapak dia ajar"

Kita pon pandai jugak kan. InsyaAlah. May we raise beatifull kids, cantik luar dalam.

Bubbye!



TOO MANY TO TELL

Hi... (hi kat hantu ka?). I mean tak sure ada reader tak utk my blog.:p
It has been so loonnggg, tooo longgg since the last time I blog..hehe. pemalaih! tak konsisten langsung!
Ntah mimpi apa harini nak memblog. Bukan ada hot topic pun. but it is almost end of the year.In fact, muslim year just began. So my post it is either the opening or closure of the year. Tapi nak tulis apa nih?

Haaaaa, there's a few changing on my daily routine which:

• I cook more often now, mostly masakan melayu kampung. dah kata nak pektis masak. have to la. awat bukan western? mak tak beli oven lg. tak akan beli kot until masuk rumah nnti. orrr ada sesapa nk bg? hehe.lgpun sian lat umair dok makan outside punya food, tp tu ahh. bila dok spend time masak slalu tak puas main dgn dia esp on working days.

• I have stopped pumping breastmilk, today is my 2nd day. tak sangka boleh jd loya kalau tak pump after long hours. umair dah takmau langsung thru botol, freezer punya partition pun dah ketat, kalau penuh how to store other frozen food like ikan ayam semua. kata nak masak. :p

• actively whatsapping my GFs every single minute, ygni mak suka. sebab x kering jari dibuatnya. sronok kalau keep in touch dengan GFs mcm ni. we miss nothing about each other. ko sakit perot aku tau,hang naik bisul pun aku tau. bahahaha. depa ni kawan masa skolah menengah. so it was like 15  years  and we still keep in touch in fact lagi close kan?? betoi ka 15yrs? ntah..*malaskira*

• I still work at the same company, but with different team this time. I am now focussing on the database portion and my job role is most likely like DBA. bolehla..

Semua yang kat atas, nothing much that I did something good in my life. Itulah, hati ni macam rasa tak cukup terbaik. Rasa tak secure dengan diri sendiri. What you did good to others Nabihan??? My self motivation is turning low these days. I'm still searching, what I can change for a better me. better mommy to umair, better wife to my husband, better daughter to my parents/in law, better sister to my sistas, better employee to my company ($$$)..better me for everyone... :) and of course a better khalifah to Allah s.w.t

pepatah Melayu mengatakan..semoga esok lebih baik dari hari ini. Amin

argghh boringnya post ni! haha. rasa mcm pelik dok crita psl diri sendiri. so selfff centred..len kali nak post psl umair lah.  len kali tu harap2 not after a few years :p *janji!* ok, see you really soon!

LOVE DAIRY BUT LOVE HIM MORE

Saya suka makan makanan bersusu. Biskut raya nak yang susu based. Suka cheese burger. Suka minum susu. Suka mayonis. Suka butter. Butter kan ada susu unless yang vege oil based tu. Suka yogurt. Suka cake. Suka milkshake. In short, I LOVE DAIRY FOOD. BUtttt sekarang tak boleh main hentam suka suki sebab kena consider Umair, who cant take dairy food. Nanti milk protein akan masuk dalam breastmilk lalu diminum oleh Umair dan naiklah gatal gatal and ruam yang tak digemari. And of course kena consider each of the ingredients masa beli food untuk Umair. Umair said NO to Cerelac and most of the HEINZ biscuits yang ada susu. Adala 2 or 3 types yang dairy free.

NONE of them has a pinch of dairy :P

 I think he can take Soy but he hated the taste, means I tried once but not after he rejected. Not after I read the not so preferable impacts of soy on kids from google sources. So memang nak tak nak Umair kena consume breastmilk sahaja. Which means saya kena prolong the pumping works and makan makanan hamster bebanyak. (oats and stuff like that). Maybe semua ni ada hikmahnya kot. My only hope is the allergy tak akan berpanjangan sampai Umair besar. Tak ke susah dia nanti?

Somehow, luckily apa  yang Umair suka dia boleh makan. I just learn that Umair sangat suka kismis! (ikut saya). Semalam, even dah tidor tetiba bangun pergi kitchen and capai botol kismis Syifa and said : ""NAK NAK NAK" after one biji then continued "NAK NAK NAK" and cont... Anak oi, makan kismis kena ikut sunnah bukan hentam sampai bepuluh bijik. :)

Ok. Next post nak story mory pasal kosmetik Umair lah.Ngalahkan mamanya you! Haha.Till then. Bubbye.

Wordless Wednesday: FREE FRUIT FOR FUN (FFFF)

Umair and the pear FREE pear.

MILKY MILK WHERE ARE YOU

Tak bersemangat. That is what i felt today. Esp after knowing that susu umair tinggal 2,3 peket lg dlm freezer which is equivalent to 15oz je :( Recently, Umair is consistently finish the 12oz of milk yang I send dekat nursery everyday. last time ada jugak bawak balik 3oz then simpan balik dlm freezer but now he took all of them. which is good I know! TAPI susuku sudah lokekkkk harus bekerja keras untuk hasil yang maksima. Harus makan kurma sampai muntah. Harus pam sampai lebam. Harus makan banyak sampai boncit!! letih la..sorry Umair. Mama is not complaining but how I wish I can produce more milk like

THOSE DAYS!

MAY IS MONTH OF CELEBRATION

Welcome to May everyone! why May? why why why?

1st of May - it is our wedding anniversary! and it is public holiday  on every year, Labor day. we just had our 2nd :))

8th of May - celebrating myself again as it is Mother's Day everyone! Happy mothers' day to all mommies  in the world.

16th of May - Hari Guru in Malaysia. Happy teachers' Day teachers!

17th of  May - ehem ehem..it is hub's birthday! coming soon..

18th of May - my mom's birthday. buy present checked!

25th of May - *drum rolls* my birthday!! haha tanpa rasa bersalah announce birthday sendiri




so can you imagine how busy I am celebrating these days? will talk about that in the next post :)

RABU TAK BERAYAT

Hari Rabu boleh ambil kesempatan tak payah typing panjang because of the worldless wednesday culture created by other pro bloggers. (lagipun sedikit sibuk today sebab tuan kecik tak berapa sihat and I'm working from home to juggle around)

 laugh, live, love

you laugh so you can live

you live when you love

 you love when you laugh

SINGLE BATTLE

Bila hanya Umair and me alone at home because abah has to work or ada urusan luar, then the 'Single Battle' will happen at any moment. So bila Umair's abah not around, memang struggle la jugak nak mengepong si kenit Umair ni. especially after work when I already penat and my battery is running low. let me share with you guys the challenges that I faced when there were only me and Umair at home.

1. Cooking/Doing the dishes at kitchen

So right after work, I akan balik rumah and terus masak porridge Umair for his dinner. If I'm lucky, all the sayur mayur dah ada siap potong and kept well in the fridge means I had prepared earlier that nite or the nite before. And kadang2 tak prepare pon so kena start from scratch !(macamla susah sangat) So this lil man Umair akan mengekor I kat kitchen ku yg cute itu dan kedengaranlah "pong pang tok tak duk dik panngg!!!"

Macam macam dicapai nya and look at that. The mess. Umair tgh cuba kunyah sachet green tea abah

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Umair, helping mama in kitchen at your age is never a good idea :)

Umair: bole tak nak main teapot putih tu?  mama: NOOOOO!!

But then, he was called by the Asmaulhusna played in Astro Oasis. Like always :)

There he goes, leaving the kitchen in a mess towards the TV . Bye Umair. Jgn kacau mama ok.

Hey!! Ha masuk trus dalam TV tu..Haishhhh

2. Mandi

 Another challenge sebab Umair sangat tak boleh kena tinggal sorang2. I think it is my fault because I did not teach him earlier on how to get used to that esp. when I'm in the washroom. So if his abah around of course he dont mind as he has someone to entertain him. But if he is alone..he was like "Wuarrrgghhhhh" out of the washroom and I have to rush while mandi! Aduhhh. nak basuh rambut pun kelam kabut. Bila dh keluar tgk air mata setitik pon x wujud tp air liur meleleh2. Haha. There, I captured one!

Bila Umair bila bila bila bila kamu nak iziknkan mama mandi dgn tenang?

3. Solat
Actually untuk bersolat while Umair and me are alone tak susah sangat sebab I can tell that he loves seeing me wearing the telekung. Kalau tengok I sarong telekung ja senyum sampai ke telinga. :) But because he likes that so much, masa I tgh solat ada je budak kecik dok tarik2 telekung. Bila duduk antara 2 sujud pulak, sibuk nak panjat atas riba nk duduk and kadang2 tried his best to selak2 the telekung. Hilangla pahala mama sebab x kusyuk. Ecececeh. So bila dah nak habis solat ja and lepas bagi salam, terus dia senyum lagi sebab apa entah..I dont know what in his mind..hehe

And lepas tu kami berwirid sama2. Umair dah pandai hayun2 badan kalau dengar orang zikir 'La Ilahaillallah'

SO kalau dah setel ketiga2 benda tu memang sangat lega.. Bolela I focus with him and play together. The 1st thing he usually request after I finish all those thing are the boobies!!

Kan best kalau Umair mcm ni selalu time mama buat kerja.

But things have been a lot easier if compared when he was around 3- 8 months! Alhamdulillah

That's all peeps..till the next post! :)

MY FIRST WORDLESS WEDNESDAY :P

Yes its is a kumbang or the beetle. Terjumpa benda ini dalam mulut Umair semalam. Yuckkss!!! Bak kata my mom, at his age mmg musim kutip kumbang and makan. hahahaha. Sorry menggelikan u all on this beautiful Wednesday. :)

THE OBSESSION

Mari berangan. Haha. So what am I supposed to write about now is the only thing that I 've been waiting for since I was kid. Living in a house that I have a control of it! Yes, masa kecik dulu dah berangan pasal nk hias hias rumah. How boring my childhood was. Mcm org tua. hehe. I remember that that I flipped thru my mom's interior and decoration mags almost everyday and sometimes right after i woke up in the morning even tak gosok gigi lg. :P

And that became more serious when our whole family were about to move to the new house which the one my parents is living in rite now in Sg Petani. I am so obsessed with the whole idea of the design and decoration. Tiap tiap hari berangan seems like I cant wait to move in to the new house. I always berangan on how the kitchen will look like, how is my room is gonna look like, where to put this furniture and where to hang this frame. Macamla my parents will listen to me esp at that age (I think I was 10) and I dont think they know how obsessed I was. hehe.


And bila rumah itu dah siap and we all moved in. Im so sad that I cant decorate my own room sebab my mom was so cerewet and worry on how it will end up. Of course la sbb by the time we moved in I was Form 1 kot masa tu and BSB, Britney, NSync sgt digilai so their posters must be sticked on ur bedroom wall. But jgn haraplah my mom nak benarkan semua itu berlaku on her house walls! Mmg masa tu semangat nk hias2 bilik ala2 teenager gitu tp harapanku punah sbb my mom took control of everything and my room was like sebuah bilik anak dara sunti yg sopan dan bosan. hehe. sorry mama. I wish a have a picture of it so that I can share with u all. I was the only dotter (spoilt one) yang x stay kat hostel unlike all my sis and bros. They stayed at hostel since they were in Form 1. So thats why I yg dok conquer bilik yg ada kat rumah. Kalau my sisters ada sure kena kick and tidor kat hall.

The same obsession repeated when I was about to get married and moved to our renting house, the one that we live in now. The coolest thing of getting married is living in a house and having control to decorate it, my thought. hehe. Sampai kat office pon dok lakar2 pelan on where to locate all those furniture So a week before we were hubs and wifey, ingat lg moment2 terindah di kedai perabot with my husband. Pilih2 perabot the colour and everything..Fuhhh...sgt syiokk. My husband rely the choices everything on me and he just provided the $$$. thanks darl. But of course we dont buy the designers' one. Luckily Wescourt furniture had a great deal last time and I think they still have it now. We bought a master bedroom set, dining table, sofas, TV cabinet and 2 deco shelves at a great price. But of course the quality so-so je. As long as I boleh penohkan rumah and start decorating!

Stay tune for the pictures. (I'll try to dig it. I think my hubs keep them in his laptop)

So that was on the history.

WHAT IS UP WITH THE BLOG NAME?

No idea. Hehehe. Ada satu macam dejavuu crossed in my head to name it like it is now. Last time my blog name was momma something bla bla bla..then I tot, wait a minute..am a momma yes, am a sister yes. am a daughter yes. am a kuli yes (sad), am a wife yes, am a blogger yes (ciwi), am a boss not. haha. so to name it with momma alike naming convention is so tak adil. so thats why tetiba nama tukar jadi begini. i hope it will stick to this one name. eternally. chewah!


and why I blog?


Rasa rasa by writing or blogging ni, sama je kan. We will know ourselves better. From words to another sentences to para..even other pon bole label who we are by reading those. From that, bolela serba sedikit perbaiki diri kan. Sometimes kita ingat kita cukup kenal dengan diri sendiri but then we are not. However,of course  the best way to know ourselves  is  mendekatkan diri pada yg Maha Esa.


And I was inspired by other blogger who spend their time and talent thru thick and thin to keep their blog updated and inspire others! that is cool enuff to me! I''l stay sticking to the blogs!

And I wish to inspire others too. InsyaAllah. Itu for sure akan memotivatekan diriku untuk keep on blogging.


Last but not least, untuk tatapan my husband terchenta and my dearie son or upcoming son(s) or dotter(s) hehe..so that they will know the journey of the women in their life :) u must know hokeh!! wajib baca. kena jadi die hard fan of mama punya blog tau or I would not have any :p


Anyway peeps, please jangan bagi award di bawah after reading my blog :p

WARMING UP

Salam!!

I know iknow! Blog penuh sawang kan? 2 bulan tak update blog. MashaAllah. I'm not gonna give any excuses here. Sudah menjadi one of my azam utk berblog. So no excuse..SO here I am..I'm back and has a lotttt to share. And now I better siap nak pikap my dear son from the daycare. Here he is, just turned ONE last month

He just love wearing a bigger size cap instead of his size. LOL

Kesian dia tggu lama..See ya in short!

THE FAMILY BED

3ree of us are sharing bed during the bed time and it has been 10 mnths since umair popped out (kehkeh). I will be on the right side of the bed. Hubby on the left lah and of course our little man in the middle. Banyak tau kenangan! Last time I was so ambitious about teaching my baby to sleep independently in his cot or whatever he owns as long as he is not in the same bed we are in.But it was hardddddd...i tell youu!! esp i breastfeed him during the night. but I know some moms out there manage to get  up and lift your baby from the cot and then feed them and then put them back and then in few hours your baby 'hek hek hek', you get up again and look after him in his cot...wow sangat robotic kan!! esp the mat saleh mommies. haisshhh..

but once if you look at this picture, you know sharing bed with your baby is never never never a bad idea :)

Why? There is a lot of benefits of sharing bed with your baby. Check this out

• Babies sleep better because they feel safe and secure next to their mother, because they are more relaxed, and because their needs are met more quickly - true
• Mothers sleep better because the baby cries less, nursing is easier, and the baby goes to sleep faster and easier (allowing mother to get more sleep)- hehe. tau xpoo..
• Bonding between parents and child improves significantly (especially important for parents who work and do not get to spend much time with their baby during the day)- wow!
• Some research shows a lower incidence of SIDS with babies who sleep with their parents :)
• Children who share sleep with their parents generally have a healthier attitude towards sleep and may experience fewer sleep disorders in the future- AMIN
• Sharing sleep with your baby may also help your him/her become more self-confident and independent (contrary to what many people think).- good for him!

Umair paling suka kalau dia toleh kanan ada 'food' then toleh kiri ada someone to play2 merepek mereben :)

Umair is so bonded to me even he will sleep well only if I join him on  the bed. So he will pretend like he is thirsty so that I will cepat2 lie beside him and nurse him. Tp x minum pon! hehe.

But what i know is, every morning when you wake up.. nothing is better than waking up together with the person that you loved most and have a short family cuddling (it is family..i mean it) ..

Awww..nakkkk sgt ada family bed pic sendirii!

But soon, when the time comes..Umair will definitely needs his own bed in his own room.  And I will surely be missing our family bed moment :)